Aries: notice and remember You are naturally outgoing and caring and, quite frankly, accustomed to being people’s favorite. But don’t get too comfortable. There is work required in friendship, and usually it has to do with paying attention. The little things matter. Your friends are always giving you hints about what they want in life and what might be meaningful or helpful to them. All you have to do is to take note and follow through。
白羊座:关注好友的需求并铭记在心你生性开朗而且乐于助人,说老实话,你已经习惯于当大家的宠儿了。但你不可掉以轻心。友谊需要用心经营,通常你得密切关注好友,细微之处往往很重要。你的好友总会暗示你他们生活中的需求——什么对他们来说可能有意义或有帮助。你要做的就是留意那些微小迹象并采取行动。
Taurus: be eventful You’re a true-blue kind of friend. Your consistent quality of attention fosters trust and establishes a strong foundation of the relationship. Take it to the next level by creating special moments with your friends. Give yourself and your friend something to laugh about as you grow older。
金牛座:制造特别时刻你是一位忠实可靠的朋友。你对他人始终如一的关怀能增进彼此间的信赖并为友谊打下牢固基础。你可以通过制造特别的时刻与好友一同度过来深化你们的友谊。随着你们年龄增长,为你和 How to Be a Better Friend 好友的生活留下一些欢声笑语吧。
Gemini: give one-on-one time You twins are social butterflies who like to do things in groups. While a boisterous gathering is usually a blast, the intimacy that keeps friendship alive can get lost in the crowd. So be sure to fortify your friendships with time devoted exclusively to each person。
双子座:增加与好友单独相处的时间你们双子座的人是社交高手,做什么事都喜欢扎堆。喧嚣的聚会虽然通常能让人很快热络,但也会让维系友谊所需的亲密感消散在人堆里。因此,你应该全心全意地单独与每位好友相处,以此巩固你们的友谊。
Cancer: be vulnerable You have lovely manners and an air of decorum that keeps your friendly unions supportive and positive. Just remember that it’s okay to be honest with the people who love you, even when your true feelings are not pretty. If you always try to hide emotions like sadness or anger, you’ll miss an opportunity for healthy bonding。
巨蟹座:袒露真实感受你举止友好、端庄大方,能让你的朋友们感到慰藉和信心。你只需谨记,在喜爱你的人面前袒露心扉没有关系——哪怕你的真实感受不讨喜。如果你总是设法掩饰真实情绪——比如悲伤或愤怒——你会丧失与好友保持健康的亲密关系的机会。
Leo: just listen There is no skill that’s more rare and precious to a friendship than good listening. It is done with the mouth closed and the heart open. It comes without anecdotes from your own life or stories about when you were in a similar position. Undivided attention is a gift that doesn’t cost anything to give, and yet it’s so valuable。
狮子座:学会用心倾听友谊中最可贵的品质就是认真倾听。它需要你紧闭双唇、用心感受。你无须分享你生活中的趣闻,或遇到相似情形时的故事。全神贯注并不会让你花费任何金钱,但对好友来说却弥足珍贵。
Virgo: be easy People mess up sometimes. Your grace in overlooking the mistakes and flaws of your friends will elevate you to sainthood. And in the unlikely case that you too should blunder in the future, you’ll be deserving of the same mercy. And the best part about letting these minor blunders go is the lightness of being that accompanies acts of forgiveness。