有些人在交谈时喜欢抬杠，被“抬”的人往往很生气。此时不妨想想还有Violent agreement “暴力共识”，生气也就没有必要了，毕竟大家还是一条船上的伙伴。那么“暴力共识”是什么意思呢？
Violent agreement means: When two people think they are arguing, but fail to realize they actually agree.
“暴力共识”是指这样一种状态：两个人一直执念于争吵，却没有意识到他们其实是有共识的。
来看下面作文地带转载自gobaltimes的对话：
Ross: This arena is bigger than the old one.
罗斯：这个舞台比原来的大多了。
Morgan: Not much bigger.
摩根：也没那么大吧。
Ross: It is bigger.
罗斯：确实是大了啊。
Morgan: Barely, hardly enough to notice.
摩根：几乎都看不出来大多少嘛。
Ross: It's definitely bigger!
罗斯：绝对是大了！
Morgan: But NOT MUCH bigger!
摩根：但也没有大很多！
Chris: Uhhh, guys? You're in violent agreement.
克里斯：呃，亲爱的们？你们还是有“暴力共识”的呀。
