Smile

    A simple but crucial technique. A smile is the most effective form of body language and a great way to let somebody know that you are interested in them. As you are looking at or talking to a member of the opposite sex whom you wish to seduce, let a soft smile of acceptance frame your lips. Don't give too quick a smile: just let a slow one float over your face. This will seem much more genuine - while making your romantic intentions obvious.

    How do you feel about that?

    A good tip for men: pluck up some courage and, whatever your quarry is discussing, simply ask her, "How do you feel about that?" It might seem awkward at first, but woman love to talk about how they feel and will nearly always respond enthusiastically. Women, on the other hand, should wait until a relationship is on stable ground before asking a man much about his feelings - otherwise there is a danger of rocking the boat before it is launched.

    Let Your Quarry Pass an 'Audition'

    Men should not ask a woman out too soon, lest she think you are interested only in her looks. The ideal time to ask a woman for a date is when she has said something relevant to her personality. For example, if she says something spiritual, say that you'd love to hear more about that, perhaps over dinner. A woman values interest all the more if she feels that you appreciate her inner qualities. Women, meanwhile, can move faster, as men are less afraid of being treated as sex objects.

    Have the First Laugh

    Another obvious but important technique. Women: make sure you laugh at your quarry's jokes and, when in a group, be the first to laugh. It brings you closer together. Men should try and introduce cute private jokes to create a bond between the two of you. This will help to make you seem like long-time lovers rather than first-date strangers.

    眼神交流

    当你和他说话时，注视对方的双眸，甚至在不必要时乃至沉默时。注视可以渐渐的唤醒原始的，稍稍令人心动的情感。它可以让犹豫不决的他产生化学反应，通过静脉的流动，对我们产生迷恋。当你必须把目光移开时，记得要表现的很不情愿。把双眸，慢慢的挪开。尤其对于男性来说，这是一个技术活，因为女性总是想要让男人对她们绝对的着迷。

    视觉之旅

    当你和你的约会对象聊天时，让你的眼睛稍作一些"旅行"--但是首先要在安全地带。在他或她的面部注视，然后专注于她们的双眼。如果他或她似乎很享受你的欣赏，再小幅度的调整你的目光范围至颈部，肩部以及肢体。对于女孩子来说，要小心的偷窥他的身体，而一旦被他发现，要装出一副小尴尬的样子。这样应该可以真的得到他的芳心，而且绝对是让人认为你性感的好办法。对于男性来说这个技巧有一点危险，所以要谨慎。如果你的眼睛"长途跋涉"的太靠下了，你就有麻烦了。

    奢华的晚餐

    对于绅士来说，这是一个在第一次约会上成功的好方案。一定要带你的女伴去一个与之气质相符高级餐厅--或优雅，或欢快，或冷酷，或附庸风雅。在这里，气氛很重要。因为她对你的感觉会随房屋给她的感觉而变化。这也许肤浅，但是女士们往往通过男士第一次带她去的地方来评判他们。liuxuepaper.com