Whether you

are climbing the career ladder or just endeavoring to get through collegiate courses, I bet you desire to be likable in social life. To achieve this, however , you need to develop the qualities that the likable people share with one another.

无论你是在攀登职业阶梯，还是只是努力想要通过大学课程，我敢打赌，你渴望在社交生活中变得讨人喜爱。然而，要做到这一点，你需要培养这样一些品质——讨人喜欢的人（善于）与他人分享。

First of all, you need to make a strong connection to your "Best self".The stronger connection you have to your best self now, the greater attraction you will hold to others. Secondly, you need to find in yourself as much grace and virtue in common with others as possible. Thirdly, you need to be optimistic. The quality of being optimistic enables you to seek opportunity for those stuck in straits. Last, certainly not the least, you need to cultivate the ability to make others comfortable.

首先，你需要和你的"最好的自我"建立一个强有力的联系。现在，你对自己"最好的自我"的联系越强，你对别人的吸引力就越大。其次，你需要尽可能多地与他人共同发现自己的优雅和美德。第三，你需要乐观。乐观的品质使你能够为陷入困境的人寻求机会。最后，当然不是最不重要的，你需要培养让别人感到舒服的能力。

To sum up, the qualities of being at your best, sharing common ground with others, being optimistic, and keeping others comfortable, as mentioned above, will place you on the way to being the kind of person others enjoy being around.

总而言之，你最优秀的品质，与他人分享共同的立场，乐观，让他人舒服，这些都能让你成为别人喜欢的那种人。

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