When I was a teenager, I felt I was so lost and wanted to prove that I was mature enough to get rid of my parents’ nursing.

当我还是一名青少年的时候，我觉得自己很失落，想要证明自己足够成熟，能够脱离父母的看护。

That happens to most teenagers, they are under the stage that is close to mature but are not strong enough.

这对于大部分青少年来说，他们处于一个接近成熟的阶段，但是还不够强大。

For parents and teachers, they must deal with teenagers’ change in the right way, or they will do the negative things.

对于家长和父母来说，他们必须正确对待青少年的变化，不然他们就会适得其反。

There are many reasons for teenagers’ change.

青少年的变化是有很多原因的。

First, their bodies grow so fast that they could not adjust their mood.

第一，他们的身体成长得如此的快以至于无法调节自己的心情。

The change in their bodies makes them feel different from others, they don’t know how to do, so they feel annoyed and want to disguise themselves.

身体上的变化让他们感到烦扰，想要自我伪装。

For parents, they have to realize that their kids have grown up and should not treat them like a kid.

对于父母来说，他们要意识到已经长大，不应该再把他们当成孩子。

Second, the parents must get to know that the teenagers will experience many stages during their teenager time.

第二，父母必须要知道青少年会在他们的时期经历不同的阶段。

So when their kids become rebel, they need to understand and not fight with them.

所以，当他们的孩子变得反叛，父母要学着去理解，不要和他们争吵。

Giving their kids some time, they will overcome their emotion.

给孩子多一点的时间，谈就会克服自己的情绪。

Teenager time a special stage, the change of teenagers will make the parents and teachers worry,

青少年时期是一个很特殊的阶段，青少年的变化会让父母和老师担心，

but I think they should not be so hard on them, just to be their friends.

但是我觉得他们不应该对孩子那么苛刻，只要成为他们的朋友就行了。