You're single -- a heat-seeking bachelor, committed to no one in particular, able to party like John Belushi and sleep until noon with no one underfoot to tell you to do otherwise. It's a great life, and why shouldn't it be?

　　These days, there's no real social pressure to get married right out of high school or college, you can easily get laid without saying "I do," and most people are waiting until much later in life to tie the knot, anyway.

　　Still, that nagging question keeps popping into your head: Should I settle down? Should I ransom my freedom? Should I embark on the great search for my soul mate and willingly kiss my single days goodbye forever? While only you can answer this question, here are a few reasons for staying single (at least for the time being).

　　假设你是单身——一个热衷艳遇的单身汉，那么你既不需要向谁负责，又可以像John Belushi那样狂欢，还可以一觉睡到自然醒，太阳照到屁股也没人管。多美妙的生活啊，不是么？

　　当今社会中，并没有太大压力逼迫着你在高中或大学毕业后去结婚。即便不说“我愿意”，你也可以轻易跟女人上床。很多人都选择了晚结婚。

　　然而，一个闹心的问题始终萦绕脑际：我应该安定下来么？我应该赎回我的自由么？我应该踏上寻找心灵伴侣的旅程、向单身的时光挥别么？以下我们将提供一些坚持（至少是暂时坚持）单身的理由，虽然只有你自己才能回答上面的问题。

　　1- You can take the time to find the right woman

　　One of our reasons for staying single is that you can afford to wait for your true soul mate (if one even exists) to pop into the picture. You can take the time to casually wade through the barracuda-infested waters of the dating pool and set your hook for the prize catch.

　　In other words, by holding out for Miss Right (instead of Miss Always Right), you can avoid the mistake of a lifetime and marry for love -- and not out of desperation.

　　It's sad to say, but too many guys get hitched for the wrong reasons, like they've reached a certain age, all of their friends are getting married, and they haven't been successful at dating and this woman is the first to show interest.

　　This reason for staying single allows you to take your time playing the dating game, and increase your odds of beating the divorce statistics.

　　1.你有足够的时间来寻找合适的女人

　　单身理由之一，你可以等待，直到真正的心灵伴侣出现（如果存在的话）。面对遍布荆棘的婚姻之路，你可以耐下性子，放长线，钓大鱼。

　　换句话说，耐心等待意中人的出现，可以防止一不小心找上母老虎。你是出于爱情、而不是因为走投无路而结婚。这样便不会留下终生遗憾。

　　我们还是很遗憾地看到，有太多人因为错误的原因选择结婚，比如说，到了某个年龄，或是朋友们都结了婚，又或是情场屡屡失意后终于碰上一个对自己表现出兴趣的女人。

　　有了这个单身的理由，你大可以慢慢享受情场之欢，降低离婚风险。liuxuepaper.com