初次约会时，你是否表现得既礼貌又拘谨？为了让她喜欢你，你可能时不时地堆出虚伪的笑容，听她说所有笑话时都装着笑出来。这么做也许让你显得"和蔼可亲",但女人也会认为这是"老实巴交".别以为她可能没看出来，但请相信我所说的，她已经看透了你。
Personality Trait 3
Do: Center of attention 焦点型
When you display this trait, you'll become the guy who captivates the interest of every person you meet. In order to display this trait,you have to establish yourself as an authority with interesting things to say.
当你展现这个特质时，每个在场的人都会被你吸引。为了显现这个特质，你必须通过给她们讲有趣的故事来确立自己的主导地位。
When you become the focal point of a room, you'll be able to easily draw beautiful women to you.
当你成为一屋的焦点时，你就可以轻易地吸引美女。
Don't: Not Leading, Or--Worse--Trying To Get Her To Lead.
不去主导，甚或更糟--让她去主导
When you plan to take her out to dinner, but keep asking her whether the time and place is okay for her, then you're giving her the impression that you don't know how to handle a relationship.
当你计划带她出去吃晚饭时，却一个劲儿地问她所定的时间和地点是否合适，于是你就给她留下了这样一个印象：你不知道如何处理好一段关系。
Personality Trait 4
Do: Fun to be around "开心果"
An attractive guy is somebody who can bring fun and excitement to aconversation. If you can make women enjoy themselves when they're around you, then it'll be easy to attract them.
一个有吸引力的家伙可以为谈话带来笑料。如果你让女人们觉得和你在一起很享受，那么你将会很容易吸引她们。
So instead of talking about serious stuff like work, school or your family, try to behave in a flirtatious manner and talk about fun things.
所以不要谈论像工作、学校、家庭之类严肃的话题，尝试表现得有情调一些，并谈论有趣的事情。
Don't: Being Boring. 无聊乏味
This is probably the easiest mistake to make. Women love men who can make them laugh and feel good, but hate men who are all flowers, gifts,and dinners.
这或许是最易范的错误了。女人喜爱能逗她们笑、哄她们开心的男人，但却讨厌一天到晚就只知道鲜花、礼物和共进晚餐的男人。
Personality Trait 5
Do: Strength 强势
Having a strong personality is one of the best ways attract women.
强势的性格是吸引女性的最佳途径之一。
You can show this personality by always looking a woman in the eyeand maintaining length eye contact. In addition, you should be a person who sets high standards and lives by them.
要表现出这一点，你可以一直注视一个女人的眼睛，并保持一定时间的目光接触。此外，你应该是一个为自己设置高标准并照此生活的人。