Everyone needs friends,and if you fail to make friends,you should examine yourself and see if there is something wrong with your personality.

　　人人都需要朋友，若你在交朋友方面总是失败，就该反省自己，看是否你的个性有什么问题。

　　May be you have social faults such as snobbishness,talkativeness and using slangetc. which drive away your new acquaintances.Whatever your social faults may be,look at them honestly and make real effort to correct them.

　　或许你有些在社交上应该避讳一些缺点，比如势力、饶舌、说脏话等，这些都会妨碍你结交新朋友。无论你有什么社交缺点，都该正视它们，尽力摒弃。

　　To be friendly you must feel friendly.Cheerfulness is the basis of friendliness.A cheerful person smiles.A smile is a magnet which draws people.Smile at someone and you are almost sure to get a smile in return.

　　要友善，你一定要给人友好的感觉：快乐是友善的基础。一个快乐的人总会面带微笑。微笑好似有吸引力的磁铁，你对别人微笑，你也会得到他微笑的回报。

　　A friendly person does his best to make a stranger feel at home,wherever he happens to be.Put yourself in the other fellow's place and make them feel welcome.

　　无论在哪里，友善之人都会让陌生人有居家般自在舒适的感觉，设身处地为陌生人考虑，让他有备受欢迎的感觉。

　　Try to remember names.It makes your new acquaintances feel happy when you call them by their names.It gives them the feeling that they have made an impression on you and that mean something to them because you remember them.

　　尽量记住人名。对新认识的朋友直呼其名会令他们很高兴，他们会觉得你对他有了一定的印象，这说明你记住了他们，这对他们很重要。

　　If you don't agree with other people on a certain matter,you should appear to be friendly.Don't argue,but discuss.You always lose friends if you argue too much.

　　若在某件事上你不能与别人达成一致意见，你该表现出友好。可以讨论，但不要争吵。争吵过甚会使你失去朋友。

　　A friendly person thinks of others,and doesn't insist on his own "rights".People who refuse to consider others have few friends.

　　友善之人常为他人考虑，不会为自己争取"权力"。不顾及别人的人，他的朋友寥寥无几。

　　Finally,don't treat people only according to their social positions.Really friendly people respect everyone at all times.

　　最后，切勿以社会地位论人。真正的友善之人往往尊重别人。

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作文地带知识拓展:

• 朋友(Friend)，是一个汉语词语，意思是指志同道合的人，情意相投的人。彼此有交情的人，后指交谊深厚的人。明朝时指士大夫对儒学生员之称 。

  1.同学；志同道合的人。后泛指交谊深厚的人

  朋友，就是感情很好，有共同语言而经常交流，相处起来很舒服，双方有时间就相约在一起而聚一聚。

  2.除情人或亲属之外彼此有交情的人，其最高境界是知己。朋友之交,至于劝善规过足矣…。——清· 刘开《孟涂文集》

  3.[aides and staff]∶指幕友

  4.[boy friend ;girl friend]∶恋爱的对象

  朋，双月。月有肉的含义，指代两个人。同学、战友、同事都可以是朋友，互相帮助、互相支持，还有老友、邻友、棋友。

  我那里左右要请朋友,你就可以拣一个合式的事情,代我办办。——《二刻拍案惊奇》

  朋友英文释义 Friend 【uk  /frend/ us  /frend/】：

  A person who you know well and who you like a lot, but who is usually not a member of your family

  朋友，友人

  She's my best/oldest/closest friend - we've known each other since we were three.

  她是我最要好／交情最久／最亲密的朋友——我们3岁的时候就认识了。

  Someone who is not an enemy and who you can trust

  自己人;盟友

  You don't have to pretend any more - you're among friends now.

  你不用再装了——现在大家都是自己人。

  Someone who gives money to an arts organization or charity in order to support it

  （剧院等艺术机构或慈善组织的）捐资者，赞助人

  The Friends of the ** Academy raised ￥10,000 towards the cost of the exhibition.

  某某学院之友为此次展览筹集了1万RMB。

  A friend in need is a friend indeedhave friends in high placeswhat are friends for?with friends like you, who needs enemies?

  Friend

  A Quaker（同 Quaker）教友会员

  Friend作为动词（verb）的意思：

  To invite someone to be your friend on a social networking website

  I friended her and sent her a message.

  我要求成为她的朋友并给她发了短信。