Anyone who's experienced heartbreak knows that there's no magic formula for making someone fall in love with you. (Or in some cases, back in love with you。). However, you can up your chances of making that special lady swoon by following a few of these simple tips。

　　任何经历过伤心失恋的人都知道，当一个人不爱你的时候没有任何方法可以挽回她的芳心。(或在某些情况下，她会回心转意。)不过，现在只要按照下面20条黄金法则做你就有机会让心爱的人为你着迷，赢得她的芳心！

　　1) Be All Ears   学会做他的听众而不是建议者

　　Women like to work out their problems. Offer a bended ear and fight the urge to provide a solution or rush her to the point. She just wants you to listen while she vents, explains or just muses。

　　2) Compliment Her  要学会让她高兴

　　A lot of women put a lot of effort into looking nice for their date. Offer a flattering remark on her time well spent and she will be delighted that you noticed。

　　3) Throw a Pep Rally   做她的忠实粉丝，尊重他的选择

　　Act as her cheerleader on life's sidelines. Support her choices, feelings, successes and failures and she will appreciate (and lean on) her biggest fan。

　　4) Remember that Chivalry Is Not Dead       要有绅士分度

　　Man the door, pull the chair and wait for her to be seated. Treating her like a lady never goes out of style。

　　5) Focus All Eyes on Her     注视着她的眼睛，让她感觉到你的关注

　　Focus on her with attention and interest. Extracurricular gazing makes you look bored and rude。

　　6) Leave a Message  约会前发短信给她

　　Whether it's your first date or the tenth, leave a message asserting how much you enjoyed your time with her and how you can't wait to see her again。

　　7) Growing Love 培养感情

　　Bring or send her flowers because it's Tuesday or for no reason at all. Better yet, send them to work to make her feel beautiful and appreciated。

　　8) Be Mr. Clean  要保持干净卫生

　　You may not know it, but every time she picks up your wet towel or cleans beard clippings from the sink, the romance wears off。

　　9) Play the Music Man  表现出对音乐的热爱

　　Learn how to play the guitar or hone your singing voice. Ladies melt over the simultaneous vulnerability and bad boy coolness of confident rock stars. No musical talent? Demonstrate passion in a hobby that you love。

　　10) Clown Around  要有幽默感

　　Hone your funny bone to encourage her to feel comfortable, let loose and get silly。

　　11) Drop It Like Its Hot  不要为小事而繁琐

　　Shrug off the small things and let it go. A diffusing attitude and cool demeanor is always a welcome response to pending crisis。liuxuepaper.com