12) Keep it All In The Family  融入她的交际圈

　　Woo her friends and family, too. Her circle will be the first to comment on your worthiness of her attention。

　　13) Take the Consultative Approach  遇事要和她协商

　　Seek her advice, even if you don't really need it. Consulting her shows that you appreciate her opinion and that she is useful and comforting。

　　14) Zip It  尽量做她生活圈内的人

　　If you aren't complimenting members of her inner circle, zip it. It's an instant turnoff to hear a negative opinion about those that have been in her life long before you came along。

　　15) Get Lost  给双方足够的空间

　　While prioritizing her in your life is important, she can't be the only thing going on. Spend time with others and do your own thing to make the heart grow fonder。

　　16) Slow It Down  创造浪漫的气氛

　　Court her with a slow dance whenever possible. While lovely at cousin Ed's wedding or at a jazz club on Friday night, surprise her with a turn around the kitchen during macaroni and cheese for impromptu romance。

　　17) Timing is Everything   一定要守时

　　Arrive on time for your date. Although traffic and miscalculations can be forgiven, consistently showing up late sends the signal that her time isn't as important as yours。

　　18) Remember that Family Matters 做个顾家的人

　　Introducing your new ladylove to your family will demonstrate how important she is in your life. The way you treat your family presents a good gauge of what she can expect in your courtship。

　　19) Surprise!     时时给她惊喜

　　Catch her unaware with that fetching coat she has been eyeing, a message on her work voicemail or a note in her bag lunch to keep her guessing and excited。

　　20) Soup for the Soul    生病了要多关心照顾她

　　Take care of her when she is under the weather with a care package of cough drops, chicken soup, or a get well note. She may not feel (or look) her best, but these moments will show that you are in it to win it。

      本文选自《鹏叔》的博客，转自新浪教育
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